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  • View author's info ( 43, Man | Jacksonville, FL, USA )

    I really don't want to date because it's a waste of time and it's stupid and all it does is create fornication and needless send. So basically let's just do it this way if you like me and I want you and you want me let's...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 40, Man | Kingston upon Thames, England - London, GBR )

    Taking you somewhere new like a restaurant neither of us have ever tried and then a fun walk in the park or markets to get dessert or a cocktail.

  • View author's info ( 47, Woman | Columbia, SC, USA )

    How about a nice picnic by the lake or in the park? Not too noisy. That way we can enjoy good food, drinks and conversation without trying to hear each other over too much noise from the background. ;)

  • View author's info ( 45, Man | Norfolk, VA, USA )

    First we would meet at a nice Italian restaurant, with a great atmosphere. Would love to then walk along a boardwalk with you. Having great conversation. Hugs. -Paul PS. Yes, I'm only 45, but age is just a number, especi...  see more >>

  • View author's info ( 42, Man | Naugatuck, CT, USA )

    go for a walk, a quiet dinner, or Netflix and Chill by that I mean actually watch something and get to know each other's interests.

  • View author's info ( 42, Woman | Lexington, SC, USA )

    A coffee or cocktail to see if there's any compatibility. If there's no lull in conversation move on to lunch/ dinner. If that goes well... the rest is left to playing by ear...

  • View author's info ( 41, Woman | Edmonton, AB, CAN )

    Maybe a meal of some kind followed by an activity to help with getting conversation going and getting to know each other more.

  • View author's info ( 48, Woman | Coshocton, OH, USA )

    An ideal first date would start with coffee somewhere. Is it considered a date if we're meeting for the first time? Is it to cliche to say dinner and a movie? Or a still along the beach?

  • View author's info ( 45, Woman | Russell, ON, CAN )

    Something interactive, maybe a little playful flirty competitiveness. A good laugh followed by an intimate dinner with wine.

  • View author's info ( 44, Woman | Wooster, OH, USA )

    Romantic dinner or something fun like mini golf or something. Not a movie... have to be able to chat and get to know each other on a first date.

  • View author's info ( 45, Woman | Mesa, AZ, USA )

    Something fun that we could get to know each other better in a lite, fun environment. (i.e. Dave and Busters, shooting pool, bowling, carnival)

  • View author's info ( 46, Woman | San Diego, CA, USA )

    My ideal date is something low key, coffee or drinks, music, a walk with good conversation and laughter.

  • View author's info ( 40, Woman | Carrollton, TX, USA )

    Grab a quick dinner and park by the water somewhere and enjoy the view while talking and getting to know each other

  • View author's info ( 49, Man | Buffalo, NY, USA )

    My first date idea would definitely be dinner. Maybe a drink afterwards, or taking a walk on a cool night on the waterfront

  • View author's info ( 46, Man | Penfield, NY, USA )

    Walking, talking, ice cream, hangout, friendship building, finding a laugh, accepting differences and difficulties in an openness to move forward.